Okay, I can’t let it go, so I have to post about it. Two things…
Small Victories
My Thoughts On Goal Weights
My small goals are (A) 199 (just to break 200), then (B) 170 (what I weighed when I got married and a weight I have been down to only once since then) and finally my tentative lowest weight goal is 140.
I figured out this final number by looking at healthy weight ranges on various sites. I trust the Weight Watchers site and this is 6 pounds under the highest healthy weight they show for my age (33) and height (5′4″). I figure that gives me about 5 pounds to play with.
However, if I get to 150 (approx.) and am comfortable and can’t seem to lose more with starving/over exercising myself, then I’ll stop there. Or…(I really can’t imagine this now) if I get to 140 and I’m not feeling like that’s where I should stop, then I’ll go down a little more. Since I haven’t weighed near that since high school I can’t even think that far ahead yet.
So, I said all that to say this. … Just kidding…
So, yes I have a numeric goal in my mind, but really…as long as I make that original goal of buying my “graduation” dress in the “regular” department then I’ll make myself be happy. In fact, as I finish up writing this post I’m wondering if I should let go of my goal weight and just push on to get smaller and smaller until I find the right, healthy weight for me.
Okay, I really think I also have a goal because I’m scared I’ll get lazy and stop short of it just because I’m too “tired” to try anymore.
That’s it. That’s about as honest as I can get on this subject. Sorry for the long post, but I think I covered all my thoughts and feelings now. 🙂 (This will be an interesting one to look back up in a year and see if my thoughts/feelings have changed.)
Have a great day everyone!
Goal Weights
Diane wrote a post today on setting a goal weight that got me to thinking. I’ll have to write more about it later, but I find myself wondering, “Why do we feel the need to set a goal weight?” I haven’t ever really met a final goal weight in my life, so why would I set one now? Is it because now I know deep inside that I’m determined to lose this weight once and for all?
Consistency
Merriam-Webster gives the definition for consistent as ” …marked by harmony, regularity, or steady continuity : free from variation or contradiction …” among other things.
Only 2.5 lbs.
As I posted my monthly pictures last night I realized that I have lost only 2.5 pounds over this past month. That was a real eye-opener for me. I knew it had been a bit rough and I had ups and downs, but I didn’t realize just how bad it really was.
Out of the mouth of Babes

During this evening’s church service my “older” twin daughter was leaning on me with her head on my shoulder when she suddenly reaches up to my ear and whispers, “Mom, I don’t know if I want you to get skinnier, because you’re so cushioney!”
Month Three Pics
I took my progression pictures for month 3. Here’s the link for those who can access it.
Way to go, Chris!!!
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Remember my friend, Chris, who was doing the back-to-school challenge with me? Well, she is also on of my best friends and we are losing this weight “together” even though we live in two different states now.
Weigh-In … Little by Little
Hindering Thoughts
Thinking during weight loss is a good thing when planning healthy meals, times to fit in exercise or how to handle an upcoming social event, etc., etc. But I find if I’m not careful, thinking can hinder me on my weight loss journey, especially when…
